She hates me....But we live together. She can be so crazy and I don't want to set her off. Can anyone help me?

She hates me....But we live together. She can be so crazy and I don't want to set her off. Can anyone help me?

Sounds familiar..haha..yea my girl can definitely be that way too. I dont get it. I was so mad sometimes with her but everything I did good or bad made her twice as mad. Honestly the best advice I can give you is back off and find something to do. I got really into working out and getting a hobby. Sometimes girls feel backed into a corner when you live together. Also find things to do together, take her out. And if she gets really crazy like extreme to the point, you got to put your foot down and tell her, in a nice not angry manner, that she needs to cool her jets.

She hates me....But we live together. She can be so crazy and I don't want to set her off. Can anyone help me?

Silly question here...but are you married to her?

i am sorry about your troubles I hope it works out, there is probably some sort of reason she must not be telling you. Somtimes it is hard even for women to know what their problems are... you know like body chemistry, hormones and stuff getting all jumbled up, but most the time there is a reason, its just finding the reason can be difficult. Lol if it helps..guys are confusing to me!!

She hates me....But we live together. She can be so crazy and I don't want to set her off. Can anyone help me?


If she hates you, why does she live with you?

McGyver asks a good question. If you are living with a woman and are not married, do you not see how God would not bless that relationship with harmony and Grace?


blessings

tt1106

I agree with McG and TT. If you are a self-professed Christian, and you are living with a woman, then I see why you are going through problems. You see, God gives us these temporary shells(bodies)as temples of glorification to him, not as pleasure palaces for ourselves. If you want to see a change in your relationship, move out. Whether you're having relations or not, just the appearance of evil is bad. If she says to stay, then she likely is not a Christian, and as the Word says:

2 Cor 6:14 (http://bibledatabase.org/cgi-bin/bib_search/bible.cgi?BIBLE=48&BOOK=47&CHAP=6&SEARCH=jesus%20king%20lord&Read=Read&FIRST=OK&HV=14) Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

This is just suggestive reasoning. Whether or not you choose the right path is up to you.

Have a wonderful and a blessed day!!

I agree with the sentiments expressed here. It doesn't look right if you live with a woman and you're not married to her. The presumption by people is that you're having sex with her, even if you're not. You don't want to give people that impression. It'll stumble people, and that's a worse thing to do to others when you're a Christian.

She hates me....But we live together. She can be so crazy and I don't want to set her off. Can anyone help me?

If you're not married, move out. You say she's a nut case so wait for her to go to work and while she's gone, heve friends help you pack your stuff and whatever furniture you want super fast and get the heck away. Start over fresh with someone new who isn't crazy.

Or stay with her and be miserable for years.