"For he has not given us a spirit of fear"
i heart you! praying for you both.
Well, this inspired me to write a new blog that ended up being a testimony (of sorts) and explains more about what I commented above this comment! If it'll help your fiance, please point him to 17. Tell People.
It is liberating. I've asked God how can I possibly "give" all my sin to Him. How can I place it at the foot of the Cross and leave it ALL there without taking a portion back. THe answer... tell people, confession, testimony, allow my failure to be known and be used by God to help other people and God uses up everything I placed at the foot of that Cross and there isn't anything left for me to take back.