Oct 14th 2005, 10:44 AM
Judy, are you saying I should not talk to him or see him other than to discuss our child? We have met out for lunch to talk and we talk on the phone. I told him that I can forgive anything however I will no longer tolerate being treated the way I have been or his infidelities. I told him I love him, always will and even though I long to have him back I do not want him back now. Or ever if he can not change.
It is going to take a lot of
Updated Jul 26th 2008 at 01:07 PM by Lynbob
Oct 13th 2005, 09:59 AM
Please do continue the prayers. We are no where near out of the woods. I am trying to be strong and not take him back prematurely. It is very hard for me. Yes, I think that a break is an excellent idea. There is so much more going on with him that I didnt relate but he definitely needs help. With his mom being ill, its a good thing he is staying with her. She needs him now, more than Alex and I do.
He has also ended his relationship with his 'friend'.
Updated Jul 28th 2008 at 09:54 AM by Lynbob
Oct 12th 2005, 09:41 PM
Thank you everyone for the prayers.
I want to clarify something about my husband. He was a decent, loving, stand up guy. The kind of person everyone calls when they need a helping hand. He would give a friend or a stranger the shirt off his back. He was kind and gentle and children flocked to him. He loved me, adored me, treated me like I was precious china. He was my best friend, my lover, my confidant, my biggest fan. We held
Oct 10th 2005, 11:35 AM
Oh my, thank you all. This weekend has been so incredibly hard and lonely. Robert took Alex and the dogs and moved in with his elderly mother. I have never felt so empty and sad. It lifted my spirits to see your replies and thank you for the private support as well
I agree with everything said above regarding the behaviour. And Judy I understand the harshness. Seeing it in type made it clear to me how ugly it really is.
Oct 9th 2005, 04:59 PM
Lyn, I honestly think you have answered your own question when you
said, "Quite frankly, my nerves and emotions can no longer take the
You deserve better. I asked Bill to read this and help me pray
for you. But HE even agrees that this man does NOT want to
be married. He has turned his home and marriage into "just another
pit stop", probably where he gets his laundry all done so he can