Oct 18th 2005, 02:55 PM
Update on husband
Just wanted to let you all know how things are going... one minute I am filled with hope and the next I am picking myself back up off the floor.
I had hoped and prayed that if I prayed enough and showed him enough forgiveness and love he would realize what he is throwing away. He did break it off with his 'friend' but after a few days she started calling and emailing him again.
I was not aware of
Updated Jul 26th 2008 at 01:08 PM by Lynbob
Oct 14th 2005, 10:44 AM
Judy, are you saying I should not talk to him or see him other than to discuss our child? We have met out for lunch to talk and we talk on the phone. I told him that I can forgive anything however I will no longer tolerate being treated the way I have been or his infidelities. I told him I love him, always will and even though I long to have him back I do not want him back now. Or ever if he can not change.
It is going to take a lot of
Updated Jul 26th 2008 at 01:07 PM by Lynbob
Oct 13th 2005, 09:59 AM
Please do continue the prayers. We are no where near out of the woods. I am trying to be strong and not take him back prematurely. It is very hard for me. Yes, I think that a break is an excellent idea. There is so much more going on with him that I didnt relate but he definitely needs help. With his mom being ill, its a good thing he is staying with her. She needs him now, more than Alex and I do.
He has also ended his relationship with his 'friend'.
Updated Jul 28th 2008 at 09:54 AM by Lynbob
Oct 12th 2005, 09:41 PM
Thank you everyone for the prayers.
I want to clarify something about my husband. He was a decent, loving, stand up guy. The kind of person everyone calls when they need a helping hand. He would give a friend or a stranger the shirt off his back. He was kind and gentle and children flocked to him. He loved me, adored me, treated me like I was precious china. He was my best friend, my lover, my confidant, my biggest fan. We held
Oct 10th 2005, 11:35 AM
Oh my, thank you all. This weekend has been so incredibly hard and lonely. Robert took Alex and the dogs and moved in with his elderly mother. I have never felt so empty and sad. It lifted my spirits to see your replies and thank you for the private support as well
I agree with everything said above regarding the behaviour. And Judy I understand the harshness. Seeing it in type made it clear to me how ugly it really is.