View Full Version : What to dowhen your family dislike the woman you're dating
Rickardo
Sep 16th 2008, 01:48 PM
just wanted to know what you guys opinions are on dealing with this. My father and brother love her but my sister and bro-in law who are like seconf parents to me do not. It's sad because she is the first christian young woman I've dated. Though I've been a christian for almost 9 years. Also, my sister seems to like a girl who isn't a christian that I was once in love with but no longer love...
There are many issues here.
1stly - She isn;t a christian!
2ndly - She's in a relationship with someone else and most of all we don't love each other and don't share similar interests and I've been hurt many times before by her. I'm uncomfortable when my girlfriend comes over because I can feel the "oddness" and I hate it because she's avery loving, sweet girl. I feel God's spirit saying to me to continue to pray and not worry but I must admit I've been depressed about it and I hate the situation.
Frances
Sep 16th 2008, 05:23 PM
:pray: that your sister and brother in law recognise your love for your girl-friend, realise their disaproval will not stop you caring for her, but may stop your deep affection for them - and realise they are not able to choose your friends or who you love. . . and that you experience the Peace of the Lord regarding this matter.
Rickardo
Sep 17th 2008, 01:06 AM
:pray: that your sister and brother in law recognise your love for your girl-friend, realise their disaproval will not stop you caring for her, but may stop your deep affection for them - and realise they are not able to choose your friends or who you love. . . and that you experience the Peace of the Lord regarding this matter.
Thanks for your prayers. I really apprecite it. At the end of the day I want God's will to be done and for me to e wise as well as faithful to my girlfriend as well as my family
Redneck Charger
Sep 17th 2008, 10:05 AM
praying for you:pray::pray:
Literalist-Luke
Sep 17th 2008, 05:35 PM
just wanted to know what you guys opinions are on dealing with this. My father and brother love her but my sister and bro-in law who are like seconf parents to me do not. It's sad because she is the first christian young woman I've dated. Though I've been a christian for almost 9 years. Also, my sister seems to like a girl who isn't a christian that I was once in love with but no longer love...
There are many issues here.
1stly - She isn;t a christian!
2ndly - She's in a relationship with someone else and most of all we don't love each other and don't share similar interests and I've been hurt many times before by her. I'm uncomfortable when my girlfriend comes over because I can feel the "oddness" and I hate it because she's avery loving, sweet girl. I feel God's spirit saying to me to continue to pray and not worry but I must admit I've been depressed about it and I hate the situation.Why don't they like her?
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