i fell like God has put to much on my plate.

[fred96002001]

i can not take any more bad news. i am suffering with extrema depression. my home is infected with black mold , my dad has 18 months to live lung cancer. the roof is fixing to cave in i can not afford to give none of this. i think my dad got lung cancer from the black mold in the home. everything i try i fail at i can not find a job. i can not take no more bad news or i will break down and cry. :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: i do not know how to deal with any more bad news or problems. i tried to stay drunk it do not work. i tried to pray it seems not to work. i am starting to lose my faith in anything any more. i wish some one knew how i fell.

[graceforme]

Please know that God did not do these things to you. The sin of the world causes bad things to happen to us, not God. He created a perfect world, but man's sin caused the sickness and pain that we sometimes go through.

Drinking is never the answer to any problem. I know it seems like a good way to avoid facing some issues, but (this is the voice of experience), it only paves the way to a worse situation.

There should be agencies in your city or county who can help you with some of these problems. Call your city or county offices and get some information about who can help you. Or maybe the Salvation Army, or even a local church can help you some and give you some helpful information.

My Dad also dies from lung cancer - it is a horrible and ugly disease. I will be lifting you and your Dad up in prayer.

God Bless.

[CoffeeCat]

I am praying for you, and your dad. Know that our Lord IS with you now and always. :hug:

Are you in regular contact with other Christians in a church? Either way, let them also lift you up in support and prayer. You'll stay in my prayers.

[moonglow]

I am so sorry you are going through all of this....do you have some other family that can help? Contact SRS in your area for help. How old are you? I am praying for you.

God Bless

[mongoose303]

Praying and asking the Lord to be with you Fred, hang in there buddy the Lord is there for you too. Ive come from some horrible times in my life as well but I never gave up beleiving God would deliver me and He did and has. And He can and will do the same for you. Thank you Jesus.:pray:

[fred96002001]

i am only 23 years old life is dealing me with hard cards right now.

[moonglow]

i am only 23 years old life is dealing me with had cards right now.

Ok ..do you not have any other family to turn too for help? Is your dad living with you? There should be alot of services you can contact for help...try looking up the local SRS and talking to them. Is your dad getting any kind of assistance since he can't work?

Praying for you guys.


God bless

[fred96002001]

i got more bad news why me? i found more mold it is going to cost me another $1,000 to fix it i put $3,000 in this place already :giveup: i am fixing to leave it all i just can not take no more bad news i need to walk away from it all and leave so be it if i have to be homeless i can not deal with the problems any more. i do not know what more i can do. life to me is to disappointing lately and if any one cared they would help me. i am just confused :confused in life right now any advice can and would help me i am in NC craven county. all i could get hudd to do is apt for 1 person i do not want to rent i want to own something and only rent land. life is just to sad :sad: and depression for me and i am not on any antidepressant any more..

all of my other family members told me off i can not say the words they told me but they cussed me out when i asked for help. They also hung the phone up.


the whole kitchen walls have to come up to the ten, new studs need to be done and the fount room same, my bedroom needs to be redone because of black mold. at the cheapest i can go is $1,000 i am fixing to wright a bad check for it i hate to do illegal things to make ends meet the credit card company is going to charge me $99.99 a month overlimit and late fee.

any advice?

[DaniHansen]

Is there a way for you to get back on your medication? That would help.

And if you and your dad need to move into an apartment for your and his health's sake, then you should sell the house and move. Why stay in a place that you can't afford and that is ruining your health? Sometimes we have to take a step back and recouperate so we can gain our strength back and move forward again.

I understand not wanting to rent, but if my health was at stake, then I would. And if my family's health was at stake, then I would. You can always buy another home later again, you're so young yet and have your whole life ahead of you.

[moonglow]

Is there a way for you to get back on your medication? That would help.

And if you and your dad need to move into an apartment for your and his health's sake, then you should sell the house and move. Why stay in a place that you can't afford and that is ruining your health? Sometimes we have to take a step back and recouperate so we can gain our strength back and move forward again.

I understand not wanting to rent, but if my health was at stake, then I would. And if my family's health was at stake, then I would. You can always buy another home later again, you're so young yet and have your whole life ahead of you.

I agree...right now is not the time to be stubborn about this...it makes no sense to choose to be homeless over renting a place not filled with mold. :confused

And do NOT write a hot check...that will get you arrested and thrown in jail..especially for that much money. They will find out its bad very quickly. Its not worth it. Just do the HUD housing thing and move out and get your dad someplace safe.

God bless

[fred96002001]

i got hucked up with some ( meds ) i ordered me some online with out an RX. it seems to be working out for me. thank you all for praying for me.

[aseeker]

i got more bad news why me? i found more mold it is going to cost me another $1,000 to fix it i put $3,000 in this place already :giveup: i am fixing to leave it all i just can not take no more bad news i need to walk away from it all and leave so be it if i have to be homeless i can not deal with the problems any more. i do not know what more i can do. life to me is to disappointing lately and if any one cared they would help me. i am just confused :confused in life right now any advice can and would help me i am in NC craven county. all i could get hudd to do is apt for 1 person i do not want to rent i want to own something and only rent land. life is just to sad :sad: and depression for me and i am not on any antidepressant any more..

all of my other family members told me off i can not say the words they told me but they cussed me out when i asked for help. They also hung the phone up.




the whole kitchen walls have to come up to the ten, new studs need to be done and the fount room same, my bedroom needs to be redone because of black mold. at the cheapest i can go is $1,000 i am fixing to wright a bad check for it i hate to do illegal things to make ends meet the credit card company is going to charge me $99.99 a month overlimit and late fee.

any advice?

I am so sorry to hear of this..please, please go to the nearest Salvation Army. I am not a member, but my father was, and they do care. Please go see them and take their advice, tell them that someone told you they would care AND help you when no one else would. Please do it. When you wake up in the morning do it. find out where the nearest one is....and call or go there. Tell them that you are at the end of your rope and need help NOW.

GOD BLESS YOU.

[fred96002001]

well a week laytor some one knocked on my door and gave me a 1990 fleet wood for free all he asked me to do is hall his trash away and move the thing. all it is 24ft long camper but at least it is something better to live in and pop desided to move to GA.

[DaniHansen]

That's good to hear, thanks for keeping us updated. :)