Lost Of A Loved One.

[HorseWhisperer]

Hello, I'm New Here. I'm 13 And I Somewhat Recently Lost My Aunt, It Was Back In May. Nothing Has Hit Me Harder In A Good While, As Soon As My Mum Got That Phone Call My Stomache Felt Like Someone Had Hit Me With All Their Strength. We Went Down To Virginia For The Funeral, My First Funeral. I've Never Been Surrounded By So Much Sadness...I Wanted To Say A Few Things But I Didn't Get The Chance. My Mum Has Taken It Very Hard, And I Believe She Is Greiving Still, But She Understands That God Had Only The Best Intentions By Taking Her Into His Loving Arms. She Had Many Health Problems And I Think She Had Many Days Where She Would Just Sob In Pain, Before She Died (About 2 Weeks Before) I Talked To Her While She Was In The Hospital The Last Things I Said We're "I Hope You Get Better And I Love You." Ever Since Her Death I've Been Having Strange Dreams About Her. Just Wanting Some Comfort Right Now
<3 Thanks, :hug:
Gracie

[Vhayes]

Here's a hug for you Gracie, although I know it won't help much. :hug:

Losing someone we care about deeply is a tough part of life. It will become less raw and painful as time goes by. It isn't that you will forget, in fact, you will begin to remember again. Right now, you are focused on the loss of your aunt and all of the "might haves/could haves/should haves". I will pray that soon, you will remember the laughter, the hugs you shared, the family get-togethers that I'm sure you cherish. The part that will hopefully bring you peace is when you realize you will see your aunt again someday and never have to be parted from her again - if both of you are God's children, then eternity waits and you can share all the things in your heart with her whenever you want.

You say you think your mom is taking it hard as well. May I make a suggestion? Go give her a hug "just because" and tell her you love her. Tell all those you care about that you love them as often as the thought crosses your mind. They will feel better for it and so will you. Love is the one thing that the more you give it away, the more you always seem to have.

I'll keep you in my prayers, Gracie. Be blessed!
V

[SFASH]

I can sure relate, Gracie! Like when I lost my step-Dad. Yes, I'm praying this morning that the LORD heals your heart and heals your Mom as well.

[MaddJack]

I am sorry to hear about the loss of your Aunt. I lost my mother about 2 1/2 years ago and it hit me very very hard. I still think of my mother every day and sometimes I get choked up thinking of her. If I live to live to be 100 years old, I will never, ever forget my mother. I sense that you will never ever forget your beloved Auntie.

Keep faith in God and stay in prayer.


God bless.

[livingwaters]

Gracie, God is right by your side! HE will comfort you through this grieving process. Those times in our lives are sad, but there will be a time when you will be elated, so very happy when you see your aunt again in Heaven. As Vhayes has said, the only requirement for that to happen is that you have both accepted Christ as your Savior!!! So, Jesus is our HOPE!!! HE will never leave you nor forsake you!

:pray:I pray that God embrace you and your family now in this time of grieving. The Bible says there is a season for all things: a time to live, a time to die, and time laugh, a time to cry....so, just know that the Lord Jesus will put Peace and Joy in your heart!:hug:

God bless and come to the board any time you need to, for whatever reason..that's why we are here!!!:hug:

[WonderWoman4Jesus]

First off, welcome to the boards Gracie. I am sorry for the loss of your aunt. I know it is difficult to lose a loved one. I lost my grandfather five years ago today. Just stay close to your family now and lean on them for support. Don't be afraid to cry and go through many, many different emotions. *HUGS* *HUGS* I will keep you and your family in prayer, sis. If you need to talk, I'm here. God bless

[HorseWhisperer]

Thank You All For Such Kind Words, It Helps To Know That People Care And Are Praying For Me. Thinking Back I Can Remember When We Would All Get Together On Christmas Eve, Eat, Laugh, And Give Presents. Those Memories Will Be Forever With Me, And One Day I Will Get To See Everyone Again. :):D

Thank You!
Gracie

[Elijah's Mantle]

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I relate to u Gracie how diffacult it can be to exsperience loss of love ones but guess what :idea: think on a reunion to come :) I will be praying for u Gracie :pray:

[Diddits]

Hi Gracie,

I'm so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you really love and miss your Aunt and are feeling your Mom's pain as well. You're very brave to ask for comfort and help while you're dealing with your sadness. :hug:

Talk to God lots and ask Him to help you through...He's always there and His arms are always open and waiting to love you through times of trouble and despair.

In the meantime, I'll be praying for you and for your family. :pray:

God Bless

[Debra R]

Hello, I'm New Here. I'm 13 And I Somewhat Recently Lost My Aunt, It Was Back In May. Nothing Has Hit Me Harder In A Good While, As Soon As My Mum Got That Phone Call My Stomache Felt Like Someone Had Hit Me With All Their Strength. We Went Down To Virginia For The Funeral, My First Funeral. I've Never Been Surrounded By So Much Sadness...I Wanted To Say A Few Things But I Didn't Get The Chance. My Mum Has Taken It Very Hard, And I Believe She Is Greiving Still, But She Understands That God Had Only The Best Intentions By Taking Her Into His Loving Arms. She Had Many Health Problems And I Think She Had Many Days Where She Would Just Sob In Pain, Before She Died (About 2 Weeks Before) I Talked To Her While She Was In The Hospital The Last Things I Said We're "I Hope You Get Better And I Love You." Ever Since Her Death I've Been Having Strange Dreams About Her. Just Wanting Some Comfort Right Now
<3 Thanks, :hug:
Gracie

Sending you a hug sweetie :hug:
I know how hard it is to lose a loved one.
The Lord Jesus knows how we hurt. He does give us comfort and strength.
Praying for you and your family. :hug: