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kayte
Jul 3rd 2004, 06:22 PM
Chapter Two

This chapter we’ll look at the Who of the prayer question. Who is He and who are we to approach Him?
This may seem to be an elementary question, yet when the disciple asked Jesus to teach them to pray in Luke 11:1, this is the first lesson Jesus touches on.

In Matthew 6:9 Jesus says, “In this manner, therefore, pray: Our Father in heaven, Hallowed be Your name.”
Remember last week we talked about Isaiah 41:1, “…Let them come near, then let them speak; Let us come near together for judgment.”
To come near God we first must see Who He is.
He is our Father.
He isn’t dear Sir, to whom it may concern, occupant or dear Santa. Neither is He the big Guy upstairs, the reluctant landlord or a distant relation.
He is our Father.
Jesus refers us to the relationship we have with God first. The relationship of a Father and His children.

Romans 8:14-15 “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God. For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out Abba, Father.”

Galatians 4:4-7 “But when the fullness of the time had come, God sent forth His Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, that we might receive the adoption as sons.
And because you are sons, God has sent forth the Spirit of His Son into your hearts, crying out, “Abba, Father!”
Therefore you are no longer a slave but a son, and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ.”

John 1:12-13 “But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name: who were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.”

Only through what Jesus Christ has done on the cross and our receiving Him, can we become children of God. Only then do we have the right to call God our Father.
Many have a problem with relating to God as Father. How many earthly fathers have missed the mark, have misrepresented God? My guess is 100% of fathers have done that at some time… in some way.
Some fathers have committed heinous crimes against their children. Some have abandoned their little ones. Some have kept themselves emotionally distant and uninvolved in the lives of their children.
Some have neglected to teach their children right from wrong, or to teach them that there is a God. Others have let their moods rule the home and left the child frightened and unsure. Never knowing when it was safe to approach him or if they should stay out of sight.

All these things and more have earthly fathers done and so many grow up with a misconception of what a father should look like. However, it is our sin if we cling to the lie of the misrepresentation and refuse to discover the truth.

Have you ever been misrepresented? Has no one spoken falsely about you? Has there never been a time when others misunderstood and misjudged your heart? Did others believe a lie about you? And aren’t the chances that you’ve done the same to someone else rather high? Is there not a single area of your life or heart that you know falls short of rightly representing God?
Forgive. Forgive others as your Father forgives you. And go forward. Learn Who your Father really is.

Our Father in heaven, Hallowed be Your name.
He is not earthly. He is in heaven. He is higher. He is Lord above the earth. He is God Most High. All seeing, all knowing. He is in heaven where there is no sin.
Yet He has chosen to give us the right to call Him Father.
He is holy. He is pure. He is set apart and there is none like Him.

Yet He didn’t turn away from us, but offered Himself as a living sacrifice to pay our sin debt once and for all. He reached down and ripped the veil in the temple from top to bottom and calls us to come in, to bask in the comfort and the wonder of His love and compassion.

1John 4:18-19 “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love.
We love Him because He first loved us.”
He, our Father, is perfect love.
Are you still afraid? Do sins past or present restrain you from knowing your heavenly Father intimately? Do they keep you bound to earth, fearful of entering the Holy of Holies?
Hebrews 4:15-16 “For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.
Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.”
Boldly. Not haughtily. Not demanding. Not in self-importance or arrogance.
Boldly. Fearlessly. Confidently. Assured.

Fearless because He loves us.
Confidently because He calls us His children.
Assured because of what Jesus has done.

The dictionary defines the word pray as: To address prayers to a deity, idol, etc., To ask (someone) earnestly; entreat.
Most of the world prays. To one god or another… sending up ‘good thoughts’.

In Christianity alone is prayer built on an intimate relationship between God and man. In all other religions it is man reaching toward ‘god’. Only in Christianity is there the incredible love of God reaching toward man.
Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.

Hebrews 4:13, “And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account."
Do you stand before Him in fear of this verse or confidant in His provision?

Knowing there is nothing hidden from Him, that He knows every good thing and every loathsome deed and thought of our naked, exposed hearts, lets look at God’s response in Genesis.
Before the fall, Genesis 2:25, “And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.”
Freedom and safety… confidence and trust in God.
After the fall, Genesis 3:7, “Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves coverings.”
Haven’t we all attempted to fix what we’ve done wrong to cover our shame? I personally could have filled a walk-in closet with all the fig leaf apparel I’ve fashioned over the years.

Genesis 3:9, “Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to him, ‘Where are you?”
God knew where Adam was and knew exactly what he had done.
God reaches toward man.

Genesis 3:10 “So he said, ‘I heard Your voice in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid myself.”

Adam knew God! He had spent time with Him, knew His love, and knew His joy… had walked in the garden with Him.
It was sin that shattered Adam’s trust. Not God. And he hid himself from God.

Hebrews 4:13 And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account.

Are there area’s of your life that you have covered up with scratchy fig leaves? Things you are trying to keep hidden?

Genesis 3:21 Also for Adam and his wife the Lord God made tunics of skin, and clothed them.

God Himself took the animal, spilled its blood and made the sacrifice to cover their sin.

Hebrews 9:14, How much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered Himself without spot to God, purge your conscience from dead works to serve the living God?

God wants you to come to Him. To know Him. To fellowship with Him. To serve Him. To walk in the cool of the garden… unashamed, cleansed from all unrighteousness by Jesus, who’s life was given for this very purpose.
Prayer – a channel of living trust. Communion with our Father established through the shed blood of Jesus Christ.
Prayer – to our Father who is in heaven. He is holy and pure.
Prayer – in Jesus.
“In Jesus name, amen” does not mean ‘over and out’. It isn’t the special secret code to assure God will say yes to our petitions either.
It is our stand before God… in Jesus… by what He has done.
When God looks at us He sees us ‘in Jesus’.
O sinful man (woman) that I am, yet God, my Father looks on me with such love. He looks on me and His eyes see the work of His Son…. And He declares that it is good.


Father, we come before You confident in Your perfect love. Thank You for making the way for us to come to You. We stand in the love, life and redemptive work of Jesus. Mold us into His image; use us to pray for others, just as He did.
Teach us how to pray. Amen

Study questions

1) When you pray how do you approach God in your heart? Do you know Him as your Father? Do you see Him as a reluctant listener or a Father filled with love for you?

2) In Galatians 4:7 it speaks of our no longer being slaves but sons, and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ. What is the importance of our being granted the place of the son?

3) If you can immediately point to someone in your life that has misrepresented God to you, have you dealt with it in your own heart? Have you been willing for God to teach you the truth about Himself?

4) Are there specific things that you know of in your own life that misrepresent God to others? Are you willing for Him to change you? Is there anyone you need to go to and ask his or her forgiveness?


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Stacey Blue
Jul 7th 2004, 03:29 AM
1) When you pray how do you approach God in your heart? Do you know Him as your Father? Do you see Him as a reluctant listener or a Father filled with love for you? He is my Father. Sometimes I think He's got to be so tired of me making the same mistakes over and over and coming to Him for rescuing. Well, I live with the consequences of my choices, but I always feel His love for me - NO MATTER WHAT!

2) In Galatians 4:7 it speaks of our no longer being slaves but sons, and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ. What is the importance of our being granted the place of the son? It's a place of honor, a place of belonging, a place of importance - but a place we do not deserve.

3) If you can immediately point to someone in your life that has misrepresented God to you, have you dealt with it in your own heart? Have you been willing for God to teach you the truth about Himself? My Pentecostal friends concern me with their "Name it and claim it" doctrine. I've dealt with this by sharing Bible verses about unbelievers who were healed and believers that were not. God is more concerned with my character than my comfort.

4) Are there specific things that you know of in your own life that misrepresent God to others? Are you willing for Him to change you? Yes. Yes.

kayte
Jul 9th 2004, 03:46 PM
1) When you pray how do you approach God in your heart? Do you know Him as your Father? Do you see Him as a reluctant listener or a Father filled with love for you?
As my Father.. as the healer of my soul.. as the One Who is all knowing.

2) In Galatians 4:7 it speaks of our no longer being slaves but sons, and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ. What is the importance of our being granted the place of the son?
Having been adopted, my parents gave me a wonderful, clear picture of what this verse means. In my family, there was one natural child and two adopted, but there was not one day where I 'felt' as though I didn't belong. The love was the same, the rights were the same, the attention was the same, the inheritance, etc. I wasn't born into this family as a daughter, I was chosen, and it was a legally binding contract based on love.
God adopts us and it is also a legally binding contract based on His love for us. Our part of that contract is to love Him in return and to quit acting as though we're still children of this world.

As our Fathers children, we now have His ear and we can know that He wants only what is the very best for us. (Sometimes pain is the best for us.) We have to learn to trust Him. His eye-sight is not limited as ours is.
Many earthly parents will bail their kids out of every problem (I struggle with this).. but a wise parent allows their children to grow through the struggles instead of always trying to remove the struggle.

We also need to be children with thankful hearts for what He's given us... not greedy little beggars. LOL

3) If you can immediately point to someone in your life that has misrepresented God to you, have you dealt with it in your own heart? Have you been willing for God to teach you the truth about Himself?
Yes and yes.

4) Are there specific things that you know of in your own life that misrepresent God to others? Are you willing for Him to change you? Is there anyone you need to go to and ask his or her forgiveness?
The thing I've really been struggling with lately is a person that claims to be saved, yet couldn't care less about what His word says. They just want to debate it and claim there are many ways to 'interpret' things... and live in 'freedom' to do whatever they want. (I'm talking about things like s@xual sins.)
My heart started out soft and genuinely caring.. but lately I feel frustrated and angry. :( Frustrated that I've spent the last 3 years trying to help this person really know Jesus.. Angry that she takes advantage of His death for her, angry that she's chosen to call evil good, frustrated that she's destroying herself and I can do nothing to stop it.. angry that the enemy of our souls is standing behind the pulpit in so many (so-called) churches tickling peoples ears and comforting them by telling them they're fine.. that God is Love...
Sigh.
I know that righteous anger has it's place.. but is this it? I don't want to talk about it anymore with her.. I feel like it's a waste of time that would be better spent elsewhere.
There are 3 people in my life right now that this has become my attitude... because they want to talk and talk and talk and do nothing to obey.. do nothing to walk in the Light. But prefer the darkness... yet claim Him.
Maybe I am being me focused... (thinking about how it is a waste of MY time).. but does that mean I should continue on giving them that time? Am I misrepresenting our Father? :eek:

So.. here I've spilled my guts.. they're laying on the floor.. tread lightly, please. :blush: :rolleyes:

mosey
Jul 13th 2004, 08:35 PM
1) When you pray how do you approach God in your heart? Do you know Him as your Father? Do you see Him as a reluctant listener or a Father filled with love for you?

I see Him as my Father, but at times I feel distant.. Like I haven't quite got the close relationship I should....

2) In Galatians 4:7 it speaks of our no longer being slaves but sons, and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ. What is the importance of our being granted the place of the son?
the inheritance... we are no longer condemed

3) If you can immediately point to someone in your life that has misrepresented God to you, have you dealt with it in your own heart? Have you been willing for God to teach you the truth about Himself?
Yes, I realize that people are not who God is... That we must learn who He is from His word, not people because we people fail...

4) Are there specific things that you know of in your own life that misrepresent God to others? Are you willing for Him to change you?
I'm not actually sure, I hope and pray that I haven't misrepresented the Lord to others. Maybe my pride at times, and like kayte, frusteration when people won't make the changes they know that they need to make, to obey the Lord.

Hearing Gods Voice
Jul 13th 2004, 10:44 PM
Study questions

1) When you pray how do you approach God in your heart? Do you know Him as your Father? Do you see Him as a reluctant listener or a Father filled with love for you? Because I had a bad earthly father, I have spent years and years thinking God was like my earthly father. Two years ago, God spoke to me and said… “ Your father’s voice is not MY voice.” Since then, I am starting to really understand His amazing love for me.

2) In Galatians 4:7 it speaks of our no longer being slaves but sons, and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ. What is the importance of our being granted the place of the son? Again, this was a hard concept for me to grasp. I had to realize that God loves me more than I love my son. I realize that God’s love is pure and not based on our performance.

3) If you can immediately point to someone in your life that has misrepresented God to you, have you dealt with it in your own heart? Have you been willing for God to teach you the truth about Himself? Yep, and I am willing and thrilled that I am finally growing. I have a hard time with people in my church in leadership positions giving non-biblical advice. Like a women's ministries leader, telling me to play politics at church. Or the children's church minster tell our son that people should not color their hair, or change their eye color with contacts when she does. ARUGGG

4) Are there specific things that you know of in your own life that misrepresent God to others? Are you willing for Him to change you? Is there anyone you need to go to and ask his or her forgiveness? Yes, there is someone... I will have to pray over this one...

Momof5
Jul 14th 2004, 01:35 PM
1) When you pray how do you approach God in your heart? Do you know Him as your Father? Do you see Him as a reluctant listener or a Father filled with love for you?

More and more I approach Him as the Ruler of the Universe, the Creator of all things, Abba. Sometimes I feel that some of the things I bring before Him are trivial and I am wasting His time. But then He reminds me to cast ALL my cares on Him because He cares for me!

2) In Galatians 4:7 it speaks of our no longer being slaves but sons, and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ. What is the importance of our being granted the place of the son?

The importance of the adoption is the inheritance! I am an adoptive mom and know that I can disinherit my biological children but not my adoptive children, so I always will be His child!

3) If you can immediately point to someone in your life that has misrepresented God to you, have you dealt with it in your own heart? Have you been willing for God to teach you the truth about Himself?

God has taught me the truth whether I have been willing or not!

4) Are there specific things that you know of in your own life that misrepresent God to others? Are you willing for Him to change you? Is there anyone you need to go to and ask his or her forgiveness?

Of course there are and I am waiting for Him to help me change them! Asking forgiveness is a hard things to do but I have done it and it sure releases a tremendous burden and I know that the Lord will forgive me the way I forgive others!

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