I appreciate your efforts to show us what you believe and why you believe the way you do. I just want to respond to the sentence above.
Everyone does NOT want to snuff out all the muslims. That is not a true statement. We pray for them to see Jesus, and many do, in dreams and visions and are coming to Christ. Often, they pay for this choice by being kicked out of their familes or killed by a family member. If they escape being killed, they must go into hiding, and try to find a way to escape out of the country that does not allow them to be Christian, seeking to find a place that is safe.
You apparently missed a great deal of what Slug said to you. He went into Iraq, not as an individual with his own money, but as a soldier, with money from the government (our taxes paid into the coffers) and his agenda was not his own, but came through the chain of command.
Women in muslim countries are severely oppressed, and would not have the freedom that you have, to post your thoughts and beliefs on a public forum like this. I would encourage you to read "I Dared Call Him Father" by Bilquis Sheikh. There are other such books, but one would be a good start.