Some of the forums here are more risky than others, and that is sort of by design. The mods work at keeping the hot stuff in certain areas, so that other places can be safe. New in Christ is an example of a place that the administration of this board decided needs to be a safe place.
Since there are people who want to talk about controversial subjects, the admins created Contro - pretty wise actually.
I hope this doesn't turn you sour on the board as a whole. I can see that you are fairly new.
Feel free to try your questions in another forum.