My Dad used to be real involved with "church stuff" when we were kids, but as we grew older he lost interest. He wouldn't claim to be anything but a Christian but I know that he is not walking with the Lord.
He and my Mother have a similar relationship in some aspects, they are kind of lukewarm towards each other. They care about each other and do love one another, but as my Dad says "no matter how hard any of us tries, there's no pleasing her."
What is that book that everyone's been talking about for Christian men in lukekwarm marriages? I want to read it to see if I might give it to my Dad.