Your post (and of course the others') helped me a great deal in understanding.
And I enjoyed watching your effort to be a peace-maker, I am glad you were able to "teach" that to me.
One question I have for you (and others, stay on topic ) is:
What are these so-called rewards?? I always imagined going to Heaven and everyone is 'equal' there...perhaps we ARE equal, but why are we then gathering up treasures in Heaven??
What are these treasures? Does that mean in Heaven, there will be a few of us regretting for all of eternity that we didn't handle such-and-such situation better??