My family is kind of falling apart is many different ways. We really arent a close family like we use to be. My bf is adopted and he isnt all that close with his family either he is 31 and I'm 23. We have been together over a yr and we are both in love and want to get married. We set a date between him and myself to get married this yr October 22nd. on his 32 birthday. Everytime I try and talk to my family about him not even our plans automatically there are sour faces being made and opinions thrown all over the place. I've lost much respect for my families choices is guys because well my mom has had 2 bad marraiges...my grandfather is dating a gold digger...and both my uncles are in unhappy marraiges. lol I just dont know who to believe or anything like that... all I know is that I am in love with a decent guy who loves me and treats me like a queen. He is always telling me he cant wait until im his wife and I feel the same. I want to just marry him and move on with my life with him. Not to mention we keep falling into a certain sin that I feel totally guilty about...its a terrible cycle and I want it to end. I love him and I just am so ready to be a wife....my family is just really holding me back.
Would I be totally wrong to just marry him without my family being there? I would tell them my plans but I really dont want a big wedding I dont have the money for it and I dont want to go thru the aggrivation with our families.

I want to do things the right way but there making it so difficult!