One thing I consider is that Jesus marries His Church - One Church.
In that Church there are xxmillions of Christians (I don't know).
But how many Brides? So I consider Jesus sees me as ONE. I don't know if that helps?
Another thing, I once had a 'dream' - I do NOT know if it's true (don't assume) but I'll tell you what I saw:
I imagined myself at the marriage supper and it was just Jesus and the Apostles. I didn't imagine other people there. I don't know if that's right or wrong but that's what I dreamt. I told a Christian friend and he said it's very possible.
And many women were there beholding afar off, which followed Jesus from Galilee, ministering unto him.