Thank you all for your support! The funeral will be held Friday morning.
Unfortunately, I will not be able to attend because we would have to travel from NY to VA and we have neither the money to do that nor do I have the time to spare at work to get it off.... No one has said it out loud but the determination of the autopsy is that the gun shot wound was self inflicted.... In addition alot of us are worried that she became a victim of her brother..... He came to live with my family and was sent home the first time for hiring hookers and the second time because we caught him peeking through the bathroom door at my sister showering when she was 11. My father tried to tell the family that he has issues but they brushed it under the rug. We are all worried about it though....
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
My soul yearns for you in the night; in the morning my spirit longs for you. When your judgements come upon the earth, the people of the world learn righteousness.