God will give you peace about it.
It is in His Word.
It is never wrong to protect and provide for your family first.
Good, Godly people with years of experience with this type of person has given you good counsel.
Take your pick.
For what mortal has ever heard the voice of the living God speaking out of fire, as we have, and survived? ~ Deuteronomy 5:26
If you're not prepared to risk your very life for your "enemy" you have no right to speak to him of love. ~ Daughter
Many say they are called... but I am pretty convinced that with many of them it was the wrong number. ~ Project Peter