Seeking a woman

[The Mighty Sword]

Ok... you both know each other. That's fine. But for private dinners on your turf requires a more personal rapport. She's got to feel a certain amount of attraction before that's going to sound like a good idea to her. There's certain social expectations when it comes to intimate dinners like that, and I'm not talking sexual. That's why I'd just leave the private dinners (at your place) until you've been on an actual date with her (that both of you interpret as a date). Does this make sense, and do you understand why?



To be honest I think it doesn't matter much, based on her response. If she's interested in you "that way" I think she might have suggested an alternative time or activity right off the bat. Not saying that to bring you down, but rather so you don't waste any time or emotion unnecessarily. Also, as I don't know the girl, I couldn't tell you what she thinks of you, so there's no reason why you can't try again. Just remember... if its going to be just the two of you, its got to be on neutral ground.

That's great advice,

Ok who are you and what have you done with Hisleast???

[KATMAN]

I met mine by way of family friends. My parents and hers were best friends who met at church and I didn't didn't want to become involved.Since I was still wild and did things I shouldn't have I wanted nothing doing with a Christian girl.I moved a few years later and became a Christian.Long story short I married her 19 years afterwards.

[Athanasius]

Whatever works brother, whatever works.

Oh, for sure. It's just some times God has to be such a comedian...

[truthseeker2]

Alright, so you might think I did something wrong here. I will explain.

So like I said, she has been over to the house many times. This time one of my housemates is making dinner and he is making it for everyone tonight. She said to invite her anytime my housemate is making dinner for everyone so I don't feel bad, it was not like I was inviting her here so that it would be 1 on 1 dinner.

Anyway, again she is busy tonight but thanked me for the invites and said she would tomorrow which is the night we meet for our co ed Bible study.

I honestly believe that she had other things to do, if you don't that's fine.

I believe God is working in this situation even if she isn't the one for me.

Anyway, God bless.

[HisLeast]

Woah. Lets apply the breaks to a full stop here. I didn't say you had done anything "wrong". I also didn't say she didn't have anything to do.