
Originally Posted by
ThyWordIsTruth
Great thread. Sadly, just browsing the first page alone, I already see what you were talking about in action.
Nevertheless, I guess the strategy for countering sin depends on which area of sin each person struggles with.
I think one area many Christians struggle with is sexual sin, and I'm no exception. What has worked for me is this:
- devotion to God's word, and to prayer. Daily renew our minds with God's word and fill it with thoughts and meditations of his word and his person, and our minds will likely not stray to think of other things. Pray for strength from God to overcome, for wisdom on what to do and to remind ourselves that "His kingdom come, His will be done."
- avoid idleness. fill our days with hard, joyful work.
- Remove all sources of temptation ruthlessly. Every time I fall into sin, I trace back and recall how it all started.
Was it from something I saw or read while browsing a particular site which gave me ideas (I'm talking about legit sites like online newspapers or social/news forums where people discuss social issues and latest happenings), was it from pictures in a magazine, newspaper, TV show, movie, etc.?
When you see a pattern forming, gouge out the eye, cut off the foot. I don't visit certain social forums anymore because the conversations sometimes turn suggestive or flirtatious, or have lewd humour on them, although I like those sites very much for the entertainment and the social chit chat. I also don't watch certain TV shows, and am very careful what movies I watch. I do this not because I'm religious, but because I recognize my own vileness, weakness and falleness.
- be alert to control your thoughts and imaginations. Be mindful of what you're thinking of. When you catch yourself thinking of something that is not right and not pure, stop immediately. James tells us that sin starts from our desires. So kill it before they can form. This is one of the most useful things I've learnt from God's word.
- be quick to repent if I fall. Keep a short account with God. Repent and renounce and turn away immediately after I sin, break the pattern straight away. One sin can lead to two (the 2nd time is much easier), then to 4 and very soon you'll find yourself enslaved by sin.
- have faith and believe in the mighty power of God to deliver, even when circumstances don't seem to suggest that I'm having much victory. Believe in the promises of Jesus, that when he promised he'll set us free, he can and will do it.
- when in bondage, pray for God's power to break free. I really believe in this. I have experienced this a number of times, where I fall into sin and then have no way in my own strength to break out of it (talking about after regeneration) because my whole being, my thoughts, body, etc. are just aching to sin. When we go to God in humility, sorrow and repentance, God literally will "give us a new heart" and I come out feeling different, without the desire to sin anymore, as if the shackles of bondage were taken away, and my mind renewed. And the longer the interval between now and the last sin, the less desire I have to break that pattern and sin.
- pray for a hatred of sin. To hate sin, we need to understand what it is and what it does. We're born in sin and do not recoil at it's heiniousness. Pray and ask God to give us a glimpse of how God views sin. Remember what sin did to one we love, Christ. When our loved one is unjustly hurt, punished or defiled in anyway, it makes us angry and we have a natural hatred for whatever or whoever it was that caused that hurt. If we love Christ, we should think of what sin did to Him, and hate sin because it was sin that caused Christ to suffer all He did. For us.
I'm glad to say these things have worked for me. I'm not perfect and will never be in this life, but there is a growing sanctification by the grace and mercy of God.
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