I usually don't complain about family members. But, I truly need advice with this situation. I have a sister-in-law who is truly obnoxious and proud of it. She takes pride in hurting other people's feelings. When confronted about her attitude toward others, she will just shrug her shoulders and say "Oh well, they will get over it." She really doesn't care if she hurts someone's feelings. My problem with her is that my 13 month old daughter is a little delayed on physical activities. My daughter isn't walking yet and only says aboout 2-3 words. Well, this sister-in-law of mine is always comparing my baby to her friend's baby who is well advanced. She is always making it sound like my baby is stupid. For privacy sake, I will call her friend's baby "Jake". She will say something to me like "Jake didn't have any problems with walking. In fact, he is almost running now." It really hurts my feelings. I need suport and encouragement from family right now - not insults. I have prayed about how to handle this. But, it is getting to the point where I dread family get togethers because I know that every time I am around her she will say something negative about my baby. HELP.