Re: Something has to change
I look at it this way, you do your best to look nice. If you're 50 like I am, looking 20 isn't going to happen, so no point in dwelling on that.
So Spike.. this may sound strange to say but you could pray about it. The Lord can help direct you in this, after all He created you, so He knows your style.
When I clothes shop, I always pray beforehand, not only that He would help me to find the right clothes, but good deals as well. Some people think that's strange but I believe God is interested in every aspect of our lives.
Jeremiah 31:16-17 "Thus says the LORD: Refrain your voice from weeping, and your eyes from tears; for your work (raising of your children, prayer) shall be rewarded, says the LORD, and they (your children) shall come back from the land of the enemy.