To make a long story short....my daughter is 24 years old and has a son that is 22 months old...she was married for about 3 years and then she got pregnant with my Grandson....she started a new job last year 2009...and she met a group of people, guys and girls her age..and they started inviting her out to clubs and bars...she had no friends where she lived until she went to work at this insurance company and met them....my son in law of course did not like her going out to bars and etc...and I dont blame him...well this October 2010...he caught her texting some of the guys she works with..and they got into a big argument...anyway...she decided to move out and live with some girl she works with..her x-husband is in the air force in Goldsboro, NC and he has some anger issues...she is a hard person to live with, she is lazy as far a house work goes and taking care of her son...she loves him, but she is just not the motherly type, like I was...and I dont know why...anyway...they have decided to seperate and have already signed the papers and divided everything...Tyler, my grandson is still living with his Dad in their original house...my ex son in law has primary custody..and my daughter gets Tyler so many days a week and every other weekend...he doesnt get to ever spend the night with her....she is still hanging out with these people that drink, and party and etc....she came home for Christmas but couldnt stop texting to even visit...its such a sad situation...she has a boyfriend and has even told me that he is a womanizer, likes to hang out at bars and etc and has never been married and he is 30 years old....I know he is only using her for one thing..but she is just infatuated with him...he comes before her own son...and that is sad...I have been prayin for her...and I cried and cried about the situation I dont understand how she could leave my Grandson like she did and it not bother her that she only sees him occasionaly...this is the time in his life that he needs both parents love, nuturing and care...and his father I hope is taking good care of him...and when my daughhter has him, she doesnt pay him alot of attention...its heart breaking...it makes me incredibly sad when I think about it all...he is so precious and innocent..and he deserves his mother and fathers love and etc...they live 3 1/2 hours away from me and now when and if I go visit him I will have to get a hotel room because now that they are seperated there is no where for us to go..we use to go visit them at their house, but my x son in law lives there and he doesnt want me and my husband to stay there anymore cuz my daughter isnt there, which I can understand....she left a nice house and everything to go live in dump and not see her son much....I just keep asking myself where did I go wrong??? I have let her know how I feel...and she said its her buisness and if I dont like it tough....Please pray that God will be with her and protect her and my Grandson and that he will guide her to him and a personal relationship to him and that she will get her prioritys straight...God first, then her son....pray that God will protect Tyler and keep him safe emotionally and physically and guide him to Christian guidance....my husband has alot of physical, mental problems so I cant just go up to Goldsboro, NC when I want too...I dont have the money for a hotel either....so I just feel like my daughter has messed her life up, my Grandsons and mine....I feel angry towards her for what she has done, embarrased when others find out...and super sad for my Grandson, that his own mother is acting like this...Please pray for her..her name is Sabrina...pray that my ex son in law will find Jesus and accept him as his Saviour and that he would find a good Christian woman Also Please pray for my Grandson, that he will be taken care of and that God will send Angels to watch over him and to protect him emotionally, physically, and spiritually...Thank you for your prayers....
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To make a long story short....my daughter is 24 years old and has a son that is 22 months old...she was married for about 3 years and then she got pregnant with my Grandson....she started a new job last year 2009...and she met a group of people, guys and girls her age..and they started inviting her out to clubs and bars...she had no friends where she lived until she went to work at this insurance company and met them....my son in law of course did not like her going out to bars and etc...and I dont blame him...well this October 2010...he caught her texting some of the guys she works with..and they got into a big argument...anyway...she decided to move out and live with some girl she works with..her x-husband is in the air force in Goldsboro, NC and he has some anger issues...she is a hard person to live with, she is lazy as far a house work goes and taking care of her son...she loves him, but she is just not the motherly type, like I was...and I dont know why...anyway...they have decided to seperate and have already signed the papers and divided everything...Tyler, my grandson is still living with his Dad in their original house...my ex son in law has primary custody..and my daughter gets Tyler so many days a week and every other weekend...he doesnt get to ever spend the night with her....she is still hanging out with these people that drink, and party and etc....she came home for Christmas but couldnt stop texting to even visit...its such a sad situation...she has a boyfriend and has even told me that he is a womanizer, likes to hang out at bars and etc and has never been married and he is 30 years old....I know he is only using her for one thing..but she is just infatuated with him...he comes before her own son...and that is sad...I have been prayin for her...and I cried and cried about the situation I dont understand how she could leave my Grandson like she did and it not bother her that she only sees him occasionaly...this is the time in his life that he needs both parents love, nuturing and care...and his father I hope is taking good care of him...and when my daughhter has him, she doesnt pay him alot of attention...its heart breaking...it makes me incredibly sad when I think about it all...he is so precious and innocent..and he deserves his mother and fathers love and etc...they live 3 1/2 hours away from me and now when and if I go visit him I will have to get a hotel room because now that they are seperated there is no where for us to go..we use to go visit them at their house, but my x son in law lives there and he doesnt want me and my husband to stay there anymore cuz my daughter isnt there, which I can understand....she left a nice house and everything to go live in dump and not see her son much....I just keep asking myself where did I go wrong??? I have let her know how I feel...and she said its her buisness and if I dont like it tough....Please pray that God will be with her and protect her and my Grandson and that he will guide her to him and a personal relationship to him and that she will get her prioritys straight...God first, then her son....pray that God will protect Tyler and keep him safe emotionally and physically and guide him to Christian guidance....my husband has alot of physical, mental problems so I cant just go up to Goldsboro, NC when I want too...I dont have the money for a hotel either....so I just feel like my daughter has messed her life up, my Grandsons and mine....I feel angry towards her for what she has done, embarrased when others find out...and super sad for my Grandson, that his own mother is acting like this...Please pray for her..her name is Sabrina...pray that my ex son in law will find Jesus and accept him as his Saviour and that he would find a good Christian woman Also Please pray for my Grandson, that he will be taken care of and that God will send Angels to watch over him and to protect him emotionally, physically, and spiritually...Thank you for your prayers....
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