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Secret of Family Happiness
The two walked their paths crossed (they met) and always want to be together (there was love.)
So: to run up again in different directions, in order to prevent this from happening,
from now on they must go to the same goal (earlier there were two, each has its own)
and one way (they also had two). A man gives a choice of targets, and a woman - in choosing a path to it.
He makes sense of his life her happiness (not his), for it lives (not themselves),
goes to its purpose (it wants to be happy).
. . . . . . . . . . . ."I found a piece of candy - give her.'s Flying bullets - die himself.
. . . . . . . . . . . . Can you do something - do not for myself for it.
. . . . . . . . . . . . If your life has come joy - it is to her,
. . . . . . . . . . . . and if trouble came - this is for you (it will not touch it until you live).
. . . . . . . . . . . . Her plans will be implemented necessarily, but your - as it will. "
He gives her the right to happiness, is inferior in the selection of targets - and that's fine.
She gives him a choice of paths to it (this is normal, they also had two).
Steering wheel of her life she gives in his hands, all other issues requests to solve it.
Including: how to live it, what to do in certain situations, when to say when silent,
this or that way they will go to her happiness - all these questions are decided, he
there the last word for him.
He fulfills her wish - she sings his will.
So the secret to women:
If you want to be happy, be always obedient to her husband
(His will, go after him his way).
The secret for men:
forget about yourself - and live for it
(Executing her wishes, not his), go to its purpose.
On the men's side need a sacrifice (the ability to live for others to its detriment)
and a female - humility (with established rules and orders them).
http://forum-slovo.ru/index.php?topic=23987.msg1192493 # msg1192493 (Reply № 25)
Interfere only do two things:
- Self-interest (the desire to live for ourselves)
- And stubbornness (the desire to live in his own way);
rejection of a rule, the rulers,
refusal to submit to them (including the head of the family - her husband,
and the head of the universe - God, who came up with these rules).
These two drawbacks have to say goodbye - and they will go to the same goal (to her happiness)
one way (his way) and will always be together. One phrase that goes like this:
"A man who dedicated his life to her - and she'll follow you to the ends of the earth."
Devote his life to it - it is up and stomp him already on the edge of the earth (as the wife of the Decembrists) -
Now that's a part of the work. Everyone must do his - and then together they will succeed,
For that very reason (and not on anything else) depends on the strength,
reliability and longevity of this alliance.
And if so, they will be together forever.
If this is not true, then this alliance unstable.
And if it does not, then tomorrow or the day after tomorrow they will continue to move
in different directions for different purposes and in different ways (as will disperse ships at sea).
These people are at best doomed to loneliness (if they can peacefully disperse)
but if you do not succeed - then the war.
That is why from love to hate - one step.
Be able to resist the vices of these - you will live in love,
and not be able to - will choose between loneliness and hate.
For any, one of the three options - your.
What is more like it - wins [choose (?)] .
The full version of "The Secret ..." can be found here:
I recommend reading: "Tell me about love!"
http://forum-slovo.ru/index.php?topic=185.msg71248 # msg71248