Ok. Are there any guys here who feel the same as I do about this subject? The Bible describes the relationship between Christ and His Church as being like a marriage, with Christ as the groom and the Church as his bride. His Church is also made up of men. Who are His "brides." It feels a bit, well, homosexual (my wife wouldn't let me use the word "queer" ) for men to be described as "brides." Why can't I be a "best man?" I mean, at the Second Coming of Christ do I wear a white gown and heels or something?