Roger, not being rude, but I was actually asking Keck the Question. I am pretty sure you and I agree on this one.
Murderer in this sense would be one who wrongly took the life of another without moral justification. Lets just use the O.T. definition for simplicity. Lets not even get into hating a brother and all the gray areas.
No problem. I would not allow for adulterers in the pastors office. Repentant or not if they are not faithful to their wives they cannot be faithful shepherds of Gods flock. These have lied to their wives and to Christ. That may be my opinion but I have developed if from experience and Gods word.