
Originally Posted by
created4apurpose
I've been married for 18 years now. for that entire time we've dealt with the same issues. I want to save my marriage but I don't know if he feels the same way. he doesn't even really realize our marriage is dying. we've tried counseling with our pastor before but he felt forced to go so the only changes he made were token changes and didn't last. I'm wondering if counseling with a professional will be any different. in truth, the core issues are his and he has to be ready to deal with them but I'm reaching a point where I'm tired of waiting for him to be ready. I won't go into detail because I'm new here and he may or may not have an account on this board but suffice it to say, I would have a biblical basis for divorce. I'm just wondering if dragging him to counseling one last time would actually make a difference if he knows this time if things don't change he'll lose me. I still love him as much as I ever did but a person can only take so much.
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